I’m Romanticizing Fall—These Are the Solo Dates I’m Adding to My Calendar
As a lifelong introvert, I know all too well that there are two types of introverted people in this world. There are homebody introverts—the gals who love nothing more than being alone in their homes, curled up with a great book or cooking a great meal. And then there are those who are obsessed with the feeling of being alone in a crowd. Nothing makes me feel more alive than being by myself in a busy coffee shop with my headphones in and doing my thing, which is why I am a huge proponent of exploring solo date ideas. Not only is it an ultimate way to show yourself self-love, but it also allows you to experience so many wonderful things, all with the pleasure of your own company.
And what better season to take yourself on a solo date than fall? If there’s any time of the year when the weather is telling you to romance yourself, this is it: The air is crisp, the leaves are changing, you look so cute in that new sweater, and there are tons of fall activities calling your name. Whether you’re a lost-in-the-crowd introvert like me or you’re learning how to be alone, an autumnal solo date should be on your to-do list this season. Here are 13 solo date ideas to make your fall the best yet.
1. Go to a pumpkin patch
You know you’ll need a pumpkin at some point or another during the fall season, so make a date out of it and head to a pumpkin patch. This is undoubtedly better than picking one up at your grocery store. Whether you need to take a drive out of your city to find a great pumpkin patch or you’re lucky enough to live in an area with decked-out fall festivals, make the most of this solo date by soaking up each moment of the experience. Put on your favorite pair of fall boots, enjoy the opportunity to be outside, and pick the perfect pumpkin to admire all season.
2. Bring a book or journal to a local coffee shop
Yes, you can do this solo date year-round, but there’s just something about fall that makes reading, journaling, and coffee 10x better than they are in any other season. The key here is to find a great local coffee shop with a cozy aesthetic: We love Starbucks as much as the next girl, but their vibe gives off “productivity,” and we’re looking for more of a leisurely vibe for a solo date. Find a local coffee shop instead—maybe it has cool wall art and bookshelves and is playing some coffeehouse jazz. Post up at a comfy spot and pass the day reading and journaling to your heart’s content.
3. Take yourself to a heated workout class
To some, the return of cooler weather means getting excited about fall sweaters, warm drinks, and autumnal recipes. To others, a chill in the air can only mean one thing: It’s time to book a hot yoga class. I personally loathe taking heated workout classes during the summer, but the second the weather starts to cool down, I’m immediately on ClassPass booking an early morning hot yoga class. There’s nothing quite like exiting a sweaty workout studio into the cool fall air, which is why a heated workout class of your choosing is a must-try solo date this season. Plus, going from the heated class to the chilly air is like you’re own version of contrast therapy, and that has major self-care benefits.
4. Book dinner for one at a restaurant you’ve always wanted to try
Now that patio season is coming to a close (we’ll miss it with all our hearts), trying a new restaurant means fully immersing yourself in the ambiance of the place. If there’s a restaurant you’ve been waiting for the perfect date to try, consider this your sign that you are the perfect date. While asking for a table for one can feel intimidating, it is also one of the most rewarding solo dates in the book. Still spooked by the idea of sitting in a crowded restaurant by yourself? Bring along your book, because reading alone at a restaurant is both fun and a little mysterious.
5. Bake an autumnal treat
I had to throw this in there for the homebody introvert gals that need more solo date ideas—and for when the weather is just too darn gross to venture outside. Fall baking is one of the best things about the season, so take the time to bake a sweet treat for yourself on a cozy autumn weeknight or weekend morning. Whether you opt to bake a full pie (go you!) or stick to pumpkin spice cookies or apple crumble, there’s a nearly endless variety of fall desserts that are almost as fun to make as they are to eat. Plus, if you end up with extras, you can spread the fall spirit by sharing with friends and neighbors.
6. Make a fall-themed Trader Joe’s run
Here’s a fall solo date that shouldn’t take too much courage to do all by yourself, because it’s quite literally just a trip to the grocery store! To make a real date out of your fall Trader Joe’s haul, set aside time to go outside of your regular grocery shopping, to dedicate your full attention to the fall items (because let’s be honest, they deserve it). Chances are, you’ll discover one or two new items that you absolutely love, and at the very least, you’ll be able to grab some old fall standbys—because no one should attempt to go through fall without some Pumpkin Joe-Joes in their cupboard.
7. Go on a hike and admire the changing leaves
Hiking is an underrated fall activity, but now is the perfect time to drive out of the city and go for a long walk. Gone are the days of sweating in the sun and swatting mosquitoes; on a fall hike, you can enjoy cooler temperatures and get even prettier views if you live in a place where the leaves are changing. As long as you tell someone where you’re going before you head out (safety first!!), solo hikes are a great way to reflect and enjoy the season all by yourself. Be sure to wear some layers and be prepared to spend some extra time taking in the gorgeous views.
8. Have your own fall picnic
Just because summer is over doesn’t mean that picnic season has to be! This fall, take in the best of the season by packing a bag with a picnic blanket, a thermos of your favorite warm fall drink, and a great book, and heading to your local park for a cozy picnic. I love taking moments like these to enjoy being in nature while also doing something I love, like reading or journaling. Plus, there’s no better way to show yourself love than allowing yourself to slow down, take in the moment, and sip a hot beverage under the falling leaves. Rory Gilmore, who?
9. Go fall decor shopping
There’s no better feeling than filling your home with fall decor to celebrate the season. Although I’m no stranger to pulling out the storage bins and reusing some of my favorite pieces, there are some things you might just want a new version of. So why not make a date out of it? Put on your best fall fit, grab a warm drink, and hit the stores! My personal favorite is fall candle shopping, so make sure that’s on your list of solo date ideas this season. From adorable ceramic pumpkins to seasonal hand towels, treat yourself to some pieces that’ll bring you a little extra joy during the season.
10. Take yourself to a spooky movie
I know this might not be everyone’s cup of tea, but if you’re a scary movie lover or enjoy a thriller here and there, take yourself to the theaters. What’s better on a fall night than a bucket of popcorn and your favorite candy that you don’t have to share? It will absolutely get you in the mood for the season. Plus, it’s a great way to let your brain relax (minus possible jump scares) and allow yourself to be totally immersed in the experience. Want to save on the cost of the theatres? There are tons of spooky movies streaming that you can watch from the comfort (and safety) of your own couch.
11. Cook a cozy meal
Whenever fall rolls around, I Immediately start craving savory, cozy meals. I’m talking soups, crockpot dinners, and steaming bowls of pasta. Spend a night in with a glass of red wine and your favorite fall music playlist, and cook up a nice, warm meal. Try a new recipe with some fall staples like pumpkin and cranberries, or chef up a favorite dish that you haven’t made in a while. After all, food always tastes better when it’s homemade.
12. Take a candle-making class
Nothing gets me in the autumn mood quite like lighting one of my favorite fall candles. Pumpkin spice, apple crisp…I can smell it now! Embrace your crafty side and take yourself to a candle-making class for the ultimate cozy solo date. Bonus points if you can find one hosted in the evening—being surrounded by candlelight and hot wax is the perfect fall vibe. Don’t forget to display your creation at home proudly all season long!
13. Attend a wine tasting
Whether you’re a wine country regular or just trying to get in the autumn mood, try treating yourself to a solo wine tasting this fall. Check out a local wine bar, or make a trip out to a scenic vineyard with some serious fall foliage. It’s a chance to enjoy the crisp air, try seasonal wines, and maybe even snack on charcuterie. Dress cute and comfy, take notes on your favorite sips, and don’t forget to try some spiced reds or mulled wines to make it feel extra seasonal.
Emma Ginsberg, Former Associate Editor & Podcast Assistant
Emma is a writer, editor, and podcast producer who created at The Everygirl beginning in 2021. She wrote for all sections on the site, edited the Entertainment and Community sections, and helped produce The Everygirl Podcast. You can listen to her with podcast host Josie Santi on the intros of The Everygirl Podcast and read her articles across the site.
Jenna Piotrowicz, Editorial Assistant
Jenna began working as an Editorial Assistant for The Everygirl in 2024. With her eye for detail, she assists the team with content creation, sourcing products and images, and works behind the scenes to support The Everygirl in uploading and updating content.
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